I hope everyone had a good Halloween. Now it is time to gear up for the end of the year holidays. I have a tale of a memorable November a while ago. First let us start with a picture of MathMan in his Red Ranger costume that I made when he was four years old:
Isn’t he adorable? His big brother was the Blue Ranger, and I put little white felt cutouts on their baby sister’s pink onesie to turn her into the Pink Ranger. Halloween was very busy with a visit to the grandparents and then going trick or treating at the local mall (and hitting up some of the neighbors).
Then we found something out the next day…
With BigBoy in kindergarten, I took both MathMan and the Linguist to her six-month well child check-up. As we were leaving I mentioned that chicken pox was going around MathMan’s preschool, but he had had a rash and fever earlier in the spring and was over it. Then the doctor and I saw his neck, and there was a pox.
MathMan had chicken pox. And the doctor was not pleased that a sick kid was in their offices. Obviously the rash and fever he had a few months before was not chicken pox (or a too mild version).
Look at the picture again. Does that look like a sick child? I am horrified to think of all the children that were exposed while at a mall full of little kids.
Then life got more fun. At that time BigBoy was getting twice a week speech therapy, and MathMan was getting therapy to help his language delay. He got a half-hour at the school plus twice a week hour appointments at the university’s speech and hearing clinic with student therapists. First we had to cancel two weeks of therapy for MathMan, then when BigBoy had his appointments I had to illegally leave MathMan in the car while I rushed his big brother into the clinic. At least I could sit in a nice parking lot at that clinic.
Just as MathMan recovered after two weeks of calamine lotion and oatmeal baths, it struck both BigBoy and the Linguist. Now BigBoy’s therapy sessions had to be cancelled. The easiest child to potty train, BigBoy, was so sick he starting the wet his bed, which further inflamed the pox.
Obviously the Linguist was not protected by still being breastfed, and having cereal mixed with breast milk. Well, there goes that myth! Plus this baby who had been sleeping through the night could not because of the pain.
The university speech and hearing clinic did not want MathMan to miss anymore sessions because his student therapist needed those clinical hours. Because there was no convenient parking nearby, I had to go to their load and unload zone with MathMan with both BigBoy and the Linguist illegally in the parked car, and wait anxiously for the therapist. Then get in the car, run around for an hour and come back to the load and unload zone hoping the therapist had MathMan in the lobby.
Somehow we survived that month through the sleep deprivation, schedule mania and daily sheet washing. Then in December one of the first things that happened when BigBoy got back to school was a field trip to the Pacific Science Center. It was a very small group because at least half of his class was still out with chicken pox.
Before the Linguist was born I actually got nostalgic for the days when kids got their childhood diseases. I lamented that the only one left was chicken pox. I regret that now, and would never wish two weeks of pure misery to be experienced by any child. Unfortunately my kids got it the year before the vaccine was available.
I found a photo of the Linguist as she was recovering, and now remember how bad she was. I am still shocked at the pox near her eyes and on her scalp:
Yes, compared to measles and polio it is a mild disease. Yet it caused a full month of discord in our house. Luckily I did not have to deal with employment issues, but not every family can endure two to four weeks no pay (not every place has sick leave). The school was disrupted by over a month of absences of the lower grades. One of the children in the special education preschool was hospitalized. Also, being one of the schools near the Children’s Hospital there were siblings of children with cancer with immune issues, they were not allowed to come to the school during the full time of the outbreak.